Love and Its Role in a Customer’s Decision to Buy

By Ascend Marketing


The role of the heart when making a buying decision should not be underestimated, according to a new study led by the University of Colorado Boulder. 

People are likely to forgo cost-saving options when buying what they consider sacred — such as engagement rings, cremation urns, or even desserts for a birthday party. The paper, published in the most recent volume of Judgment and Decision Making, is among the first to examine the implications of this phenomenon. 

Even when they identify a less expensive alternative to be equally desirable, people choose the more expensive of two items. They also avoid searching for lower prices and negotiating better prices when the goods they’re buying are symbolic of love. 

“People’s buying behavior changes when they’re making purchases out of love because it feels wrong to engage in cost-saving measures,” said Peter McGraw, lead author of the study and associate professor of marketing and psychology at CU-Boulder’s Leeds School of Business. “People abandon cost-saving measures when it comes to sentimental buys because they want to avoid having to decide what is the right amount of money to spend on a loving relationship.” 

The findings highlight how wedding, funeral and other industries can exploit consumers, said McGraw. 

In one part of the study, which involved nearly 245 participants, the researchers asked attendees at a Boulder wedding show about their preference between two engagement rings. The attendees nearly always chose the more expensive ring when deciding between a more expensive ring with a bigger carat and a less expensive ring with a smaller carat. 

“It’s important to be aware of this tendency not to seek cost savings because, over a lifetime, consumers make many purchases that are symbolic of love — whether for weddings, funerals, birthdays, anniversaries and even potlucks,” said McGraw. “The loss of savings can really add up and put people in compromising financial situations.” 

Conducting the study was Derick Davis, an assistant professor of marketing at the University of Miami in Coral Gables, Florida; Sydney Scott, a graduate student in psychology at the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia; and Philip Tetlock, Leonore Annenberg University Professor of psychology also at Penn. 

Ascend’s Take: 

Buying decisions can be complex, whether it’s the nature of the product, an emotion that the product evokes or the customers’ unique situation as they are considering the product. It is imperative that these and other factors are taken into consideration in devising a journey marketing campaign.


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